What Life Begins At The End Of Your Comfort Zone?

 

I saw a quote that said, “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” I immediately thought about my career as a transformation specialist and related this quote to that. When I am taking on a new client, I am asking them to walk to the edge of their comfort zone and step out of it into a new life. This is probably one of the hardest steps we will ever take in our life – and hopefully we take a lot of those hard steps.
 
Most of us go through life wishing that we could find a way to change something about our life or ourselves personally. We call them wishes because we haven’t yet committed ourselves to trying to make those changes – that’s when they become goals. Why do we hold ourselves back from changing our wishes into goals?
 
When we are wishing for change, we are in our comfort zone, all nice and warm and comfy, and we don’t even realize that we have become stinky and stagnant. This is normal, and it feels good. Our brain is happy because it knows that it is safe here, nothing bad is going to happen. But then we decide to go walk around our comfort zone just a little bit and we find the edge. What do we see? What do YOU see? Hopefully it is a glimmer of what our/your life could be like if you changed that wish into a goal and started stepping out of that comfort zone.
 
Stepping out of the comfort zone is like standing at the edge of a Cliff and your loved one is on the other side. When you look at the distance between you all you can see is the deep gulf there. But you know that they got from where you are to the other side but you can’t see how. They call you, “Just have faith and take a step, I promise you that everything will be okay.”
 
The thought of taking that first step doesn’t seem safe and so your critter brain turn itself on and freaks out telling you, “Don’t do it! It isn’t safe. Just stay right here where we know we are okay. Please don’t take that step.” There’s inner turmoil at work. Who do I trust, my loved one on the other side that somehow got there safe and sound, or my critter brain that telling me that it isn’t safe and to stay where I am?
 
Like the quote says, “life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” If you want the life you have been wishing for, you’re going to have to turn it into a goal and make that first step. What life do you have waiting for you at the end of your comfort zone? Is it worth stepping out for? What are you willing to do to get it? what ae you willing to give up to have the life you desire? 
A transformation coach like myself is going to be able to help you tap into your personal power, fine tune your desires, help you set yourself up for inevitable success, and turn off your critter brain so you can make that first step. I promise you that the second you stick your foot outside of your comfort zone there will be solid ground that appears into view; it was hidden by your fear, and will be revealed by your courage and faith. Let me help you step out of your comfort zone and begin the life that you have been desiring for so long. Let me help you see the solid ground you are going to use to get to the other side. I know you can do it!
 
Call me, Boots at (505) 644-3950, or
email me at boots.transformsme@gmail.com
 
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“You can’t rise from your circumstances without being in them first, and you can’t be in them if you don’t allow yourself to feel through them.”
                                          Unknown

 

 

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